I believe that every relationship has a Dominant person and a Submissive person. In this relationship I am the Dominant one. I always knew from a young age that I was different and as I got older I learned more and more about myself and realized I had a very dominant personality. I grew up becoming a strong, independent woman. Because of that it has been difficult to have a boyfriend that understood and accept me the way I am. One of the common things I heard and still hear all the time is that I a being a bitch. I am not being a bitch because I speak my mind, have my own opinions and don't rely on a male to support me. I will not apologize for being who I am meant to be.
Being a dominant does not mean I control everything, it just means I take charge and have the final say in my relationship. Being dominant means making sure everyone does what's best for their health and that they are taken care of. But, having this dominant personality, I have also learned that I am a Domme. I love being a Domme and it's just part of who I am. There is no separating the Domme and the person, because the Domme makes up part of who I am. I love the lifestyle and what it has to offer. With that being said, I have many more wilder interests than Billy. Billy knows that he can not meet all of those wilder kinks and is fine with me finding a play partner or two to explore and enjoy those kinks with. I also learned as I grew into an adult that I am a sadistic Domme and very much love playing with a partner that can take a lot of pain. I enjoy causing pain with pleasure and it gives you a high. I have many years of experience in the lifestyle, over 20 actually.
Some of my kinks or interest are: CBT, pegging, spanking, foot worship, sissy maids, tease and denial, nipple torture, some bondage and much more.
My hard limits are: knife and fire play, scat, golden , blood and anything illegal
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